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Again, more work on my part. Not only do I have to overcome his infidelity, I have to encourage him to press on.


Wait. Don't take all this responsibility. If he is in MLC, you can't do anything about that. He has to find his own way out and you'll go nuts if you think you'll help him out of it.
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Occassionally, I will ask H if he's heard from her and he says No - why would he?


So why ask? cheeseless tunnel. Let it go, focus on you. What are you doing to occupy your mind and get yourself tired enough to sleep at night? GAL?


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.