After all that we've been through, why in the heck would our H think that they wouldn't be attacked? For heavens sake, are they stupid? Do they think we're made of iron? Of course we'll attack, all of us in different ways, some verbal, some emotional, some by detaching, some physical, but yes, we will attack in some way.
Just hearing my H tell this lie has lead me to a decision, and that is, if I become aware of him telling me a lie - it must be significant, not the stupid "my kids are better than your kids" lie, but something that would affect me - financially or emotionallly, I will walk away from this marriage. I have gained a huge amount of strength this last year and a half and unless I use this strength and knowledge for MY self-esteem and self worth, then it would be all for nothing. I expect nothing from my H. I expect everything from me.
