hey gwyn! there you are, glad you had a good time.
I hear you about the lying, it comes as easy as breathing to my H too, stupid little lies even when I tell him to just come clean and I wont' make a fuss. Sadly, it is horrible habit hard to break. For the time being choose your battles. I for now dont' care for lying either, of any kind, my H thinks you can lie if it will make things run smoothly or to avoid conflict. We've gone through this before, he just thinks all people lie and he will try to tell the truth but I can see he stil thinks occasional lying is ok. Unless you suspect he is lying to you about a significant aspect of your R, dont' make a huge issue of it just yet.
The other thing is, how do you react when you find out he's lied, do you you get really angry and confront him? Lord knows anyone would've gone bananas like I did when I found out about the OP and the A, (he was like "and that' s why I didnt' tell you" YEAH RIGHT.)
Anyways, my point is, does he feel he will be attacked if he comes out w/the truth? I don't think you and I can do much on that dept., so unless we really smell a rat we'll have to let some white lies go by, sometimes we won't even have a choice. I think that stinks, but I dont' see any other way, any body had a different opinion?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
