I'm afraid not. He has told me so many lies throughout our R. Why is that we just overlook these significant character flaws when dating? Is it because the good out weighs the bad? Lies should be a red flag, shouldn't it? I knew they were lies when he told them to me, yet I enjoyed being around him so much, it didn't seem to matter at the time. Now, looking back, it was a very significant sign. At any rate, I married him and I believe that there was a reason why I did so I try to work on the positives.
My gut feeling? Hmmm. My gut feeling is that my H is a pathelogical lier. Now what? Do I call him on the untruths or do I just ignore them. Are the "little white lies" really significant enough to end our R? Please, adivse is most appreciated. It's all confusing, especially when I'm so close to the sitch. I love hearing the unbiased opinions. They really do help.
