WAY TO GO MATILDA!!!!! I think you did great confronting that B!! I would have loved to see the look on her face!! There are times when I imagine confronting XOW myself but since we don't go where she is much and when we go we never see her, I never get the chance. [Razz] I have a vivid imagination though. Anyway,sounds like the anniversary went REAL WELL [Wink] !! You sound like you are doing so much better!! I understand the resentment thing. I still every once in a while look at my H and think to myself "How could you do what you did"" and I sometimes still get a little down about it but he is good at making me feel sooooo much better [Big Grin] !! It was great to hear from you and I am so glad that things went so well. I am proud of you for confronting the B and it is great to know that you are feeling so good!! Keep it up girl!!!! I'll be checking in again from time to time. Pfroglady