Thanks Gwyn. My problem with being honest with H is that he has never admitted to any wrongdoing, so by saying I forgive him will burst open a whole beehive of something that he would still deny. I think I need to aim more at the pain we have caused and lived with over the last almost 3 years, without referring to what started it all. I have told him in the past that I think we can work thru this and move on to be better than we ever were. Not much response from him. Does that make sense in how to approach this with him?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
