Debra,

Don't worry, and don't be afraid. I know how you feel and what your going through. You will not be able to control what he does but what you do. This is a time for you to grow and heal...Debra, believe me, you are ok in this....I know the thoughts going through your mind is what hurts, I know the nights are so difficult and I know how horrible the weekends are. But you will get through this...do not want him back so soon....take this time to grow.....dont jump from the fire into the frying pan....trust in the love you have and what that means....sometimes in marriage the love is taken for granted and we forget the meaning of it....take this time to learn what the love truely means for you...your H will find this, right now he thinks it's in someone else....but he is mistaken...


Doug Robinson