No one knows the outcome, if we did we would not be here. You are not competing, she is. You have established something she could never have, your marriage and the love you both feel for each other and what you have together, believe in this. You can compete as well and hold more in your favor. Begin to exercise and lose weight. This will make you feel very good as well as your H noticing a difference. Remember, let him find out that no one else can duplicate what you have given him. I know it's hard to sit back and watch and wait but let him. Let go w/ love. In time (no one knows how long) he will see this. Trust me, the more you let go, the greater the love, this will never change. Love is incredible, it really is...He will miss your love...I believe love is like a snowflake...no two alike exists...yours cannot be duplicated...so, work on you and let him investigate for all the reason why YOU are the ONE!!!!!!!!
