I would say keep DB,ng, now more than ever. Don't give up now. There is a good change you and your H have reconciliated too early. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I have read many other situations like this were this has happened after WAS comes back too early.. Actually, this time is even harder because you think your soclose and it's almost over, well it isn't. Patience, patience....let him say what he wants. I do agree with one thing Kent said, you can't stop him if he does want to go.....but think of this...that relationship now is really being destroyed...She knows he still loves you....plus, he is not over her in his heart, another words he is still morning that relationship....try, No Drama for a while....continue to back off and give space....talk when he wants and remind him how hard you two have worked to get here and you are willing to work as hard to get a better marriage...it won't be easy, but you are committed...I also read (Lorettea) that her husband came home and left again and came back....Dont give up!!! Please keep me (us) posted....your situation is important...Good Luck...