Is she coming home to the Real Deal???

[Jamesjohn]

Your welcome TW.

I really don't want to be the bearer of doom and gloom either, but one of the expectations to give up will be total lack of communication with om. You were right about the addiction deal, view it as such. Even if she doesn't initiate contact, he might.

I'm not saying that this is something you should just roll over and play dead about. I just think you should be prepared for it, and not "react" to it. This is what the "open eyes" part is about.

Try your best to keep yourself centered if and when this happens. How you "act" under these circumstances could make or break your progress.

Remember, when in doubt, do nothing.

Hang in there, my friend!