********************************************** She needs to decide by later this week ********************************************** She decides when she decides. Just be ready. You sure been talkin bunches. Enough of that heavy stuff. Don't initiate any more OR crap.
Your right about giving her space. I suggest you start making an effort to be going out some. Start some new activities that keep you away from home and away from the phone.
Wifey is playing with the bait but not biting. Time to start reeling it in some. Make her wonder if she might lose the chance. Not alot. Just some subtle changes in the hours you keep and your availability.
Just cus she needs time to sort things out don't mean you need to be waiting around for her. It's actually pretty pathetic if she thinks your life is on hold.
Get out meet some wimmins. Dance! club! bowl! whatever! Anything will do. I recommend a little dimness for you.