TW - I AM a big proponent of open communication between spouses, learning how to talk, and learning how to listen.
Remember that the spoken word is just a small part of communicating. "Actions speak louder than words".
I would suggest that you just kinda hang loose on some of the talk stuff right now. Some things that you think need to be talked about now will become less important in the future. Choose your talks wisely.
Take this time to chill, and enjoy each other right now. There should be plenty of time for some of the other crap later. Become best friends again first.
JJ
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