"I am concerned about her moving back in and I need to know from her what her intentions are and what this means for us. Is she committed to the R and re-building the trust or is it because she likes our house and misses the kids?"
Try not to let these questions consume you. They'll only add to your confusion, keep you second-guessing her actions, create expectations, and take away from any positive times you have together.
What's important is that you'll be in the same house together, and have more opportunities to work your changes.
Hang in there, buddy!
JJ
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