JJ – Thanks for the response. I appreciate your comments. I also think that things will be OK after she gets through the pain of ending the A.
I do know what I need to do and need to continue to be strong.
She asked me out for a fun date Friday night, so that is a step in the right direction. Building on our friendship first and work from there.
I am concerned about her moving back in and I need to know from her what her intentions are and what this means for us. Is she committed to the R and re-building the trust or is it because she likes our house and misses the kids?