Why is it so hard to figure out what they want?I don't understand her at all.Like I said before our D is final and has been for 6 months but her stuff is still at my house and she stopped her lawyer from taking the money out of my retirement.We see each other almost every day and most of the time she is nice enough.I ask her out every 3 weeks or so and so far she hasn't gone out on a date.She has invited me to go shopping and to eat with her and the D's and we will spend 8 or 10 hours together and it is great.The OM is out of the picture but lives 2 houses down from mine.I think she is still trying to get over him and I am trying to give her time.I wish she would go to C and to a different Dr. she is the nicest 1 week a month and usually grouchy the other 3 weeks,just my luck I get one that is backwards.I am still trying to be her friend and don't bring up sex or try to crowd her space.I wish I could look down the road and see what is going on in 6 months.I am to the point that if I met someone that I was really attracted to I would probaly go out.I just will not use a woman to see if it will make her jealous.I also told her a couple of months ago that if she started dateing I would consider that the end and that I should show her the same.It is just weird that she would do some of the things she has done and not be planning on coming back.Oh and she starts paying me rent next month.I told her she was welcomr to come back anytime she wanted to work on us.She even said right before we walked into court that this doesn't mean that we won't ever be together again.????
