Thanks for the reply.I think at times that we are close to really start working on R and then her head starts spinning around again.We spent 10 hours together the other day taking the kids to a movie and shopping and eating out.I try to just be friendly and work on friendship but then the next day she is a total bi#@@ towards me and it's all I can do to walk away.We are D but all her stuff is still at my house and several other weird things are going on.How do I treat her?