Well it seems that the aliens are back,I'm going through a cold shoulder spell.She says she isn't ready to go out yet and doesn't know what she wants.Even though we are D she still hasn't seperated from me.Sometimes I wonder if she will ever turn loose of her feelings for the XOM or least I think X.I think they still talk some but I think he is done.I just don't know if I should back way off or what.I hate the fact that she gets to play by her rules.Any advice?