Thanks guys for the response.Yes it is hard because we live in a very small town and see each other everyday,in fact I have known her since she was born.Friday she came to my house and I cooked her supper,she even slipped once and called me hon.But it turned out great and I ate at her house sunday night.It's kind of strange she can invite me over to eat but then when I get ready to leave she won't hardly say good bye.We have been D since Nov. 01 and most of her stuff is still in my house.Her place is real small but most of the time during a D they find someplace to put it.She knows I love her but I try not to tell her very often.She did tell me a while back that she was just sitting back watching.I think by her mood she may still talk to OM but I don't think anything is going on and I haven't said anything.I am hopeing she will start dateing soon.