Very encouraging posts Randy and Testa. I have been separated 13 months and the reason was 'cos of me. Late into the S my W drew closer to OM (work colleague). I could never blame her for that. We could be divorced by April but since DBing (January) and learning more about Gods wisdom I have changed for the better and W has noticed this [Smile] She always said in the months during 2001 I haven't changed. Gawd did I have to bite my tongue. So now I apply strict DB rules. No bringing up "US" or "OM" and no pressure. We have "moved on". Well W has I have let her go 'cos I love her BUT she was here at my (was both) house Thursday and this was the second time I have saw her since 25th December. I am being her friend and it gives me encouragement when I read your posts that you were separated that amount of time and then D'd.

Love is a very strong emotion and I met my W when she was 16, I was 22. That is a long history that we shared. You can't take that away. I wish I discovered DB early last year.
W is also coming to 2 Brian Wilson concerts in June and we could be D'd by then. But all this time I have to change me even more. Also what is OM going to think about me having all this contact? [Smile]
I seem to have a problem though working out my W's confusion. I have posted in 'Hopefulness'. If W has moved on then how come she openingly cries in front of me saying she can't stop thinking about me, also when questioned by OM whilst they were sitting together to what she was thinking about, he said you are thinking about Scott aren't you? Well maybe I should just not look into it that much.
Scott

[ March 03, 2002, 12:14 PM: Message edited by: smileysmile ]

Together 89 W30/H36 M/Sept2000 S/Jan2001 OM involved during S WAS has stalled on D? Now D'd March 2004