I have been posting over in the affair section and I hope that I am getting to a point that my XW and I start dateing again.She is up and down so much it makes it tough.We spend quite a bit of time together going shopping and taking the kids out to eat but so far she says she isn't ready for real date. I don't bring up OR or A and just try to be pleasent,I really do love her and I have tried to give her space.My real question is should I not ever ask her out and wait and let her ask me?When we go shopping or to eat she has always asked me to go.We have been D since nov 01 and were seperated a year before that.There will be alot of things changing in a few months like she will have to start paying me rent.I think she still talks to the OM some but she gets very angry whenever he is around.He doesn't live in the same town anymore and that helps.Do I just keep waiting?We have gotton along alot better since the D that we did for the year before.
