Jenny: THank you for providing some insight into your situation. You were patient & strong. I know that I am strong to (just not patient, but I'm working on it). It is a daily struggle to know what is going on & how to handle it. Just today, I went to the gym & was alone with the trainer. She mentioned her D. I asked her about it. They were married 23 years, he had OW for 4 years. SHe did not know. He ended up marrying OW> THis scares me so much. My H already has life with OW - has lived with her in their apt for 5 months. (OW made sure she even put both of their names on the door). I see some signs of my H being nicer, but no idea what he is thinking.No signs of him moving towards me. I really wonder what is going on. He does not mention D, though. He may be building up to that. I just wish I knew. Barb
