I have always wondered what it is that a HD man can actually do to make himself happy. To make ourselves happy, we would have to cheat! If you don't have a "lover", how can you be happy? I have been forced for years now to live the life of a LD, and the one thing of being in this lifestyle is that there is no "point" to the LD lifestyle. Sure, little things in life can make you happy for the moment, but the overall goal, that of having a lover, is never attained, and that leave you feeling empty. This does not seem to bother LD's, because they really don't have any goal to their life, other than to please everyone in their lives.
