Hmmm... would you really like to go? Or would you just like to go because you'd like to be invited?
I can understand why you are disappointed that she chooses to do this without you. Maybe she just needs to "have her own space" once a month and the fact that the other gals invite people is neither here nor there in her mind.
How are you doing otherwise Brian?
Fran
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