I am so grateful to 'know' that there are people who made it to the other side.
Please come back and be sounding boards for those of us who are trying to do what you have done.
Sometimes I become so narrow focused on some aspect of our sit that I become pessimistic and feel like we'll wind up with a marriage that is unfulling.
I have to be patient and let God work. I have to make the changes within myself that enhance the kind of person I really am and not the one I turned into over the years.
I have to let my H deal w his own burdens. I have to trust that he will make the right decisions w regard to THIS R.
It just gets scarey sometimes. I know there are a lot of couples out there who are just going through the motions and are afraid at any moment that what they've tried so hard to keep together could come crashing down at any minute. Brave souls. Sad souls.
If it's God's will, I will be able to lead my H back to an emotional bond WITH ME.
Thank you for any insights you can share!!!!!!!!!!!!!
