Hi Lily, It's great that your H is at home. Don't worry,his feelings will catch up in time.He has to heal and trust his own emotions again. Continue to use Dbing techniques,lovingly distance and do NOT initiate OR talks uinder any circumstances. Use active listening techniques to build a "friendship". Have patience and loads of PMA. It takes time...you can do it! Don't personalize his behavior. This is about him, not you!!!! Read Michele's bookks again. Work on enhancing your own abilities and talents.Dress and behave as if you were just starting your relationship. The old one is gone...it's time for a fresh start. Act "as if" he is your hero. Before you know it he will be madly "in love" with you again.Your work on yourself will be the catalyst!!!
Think back to the woman you were when he first met you and what attracted him early on. Grow and develop into the best person you can be and RELAX & ENJOY each day!
