Karen,GG,John's wife & Jenny: I jumped over here to read something positive for a change. Jenny - thanks for posting under my thread -Roller Coaster Ride under MLC. I am a Positive Person & need to read success stories like yours to keep the faith. I would appreciate any input you successful DBers have to give me. Mine is a tough one - H moved out 7 months ago in full blown MLc, after 25 years of M & 3 kids. He was having PA with co worker. They got an apt together in Nov after I told her H. I have made some big improvements this week. Please check out my story. Thanks. Barb