Hi Karen, I am happy to hear someone else is doing well. Because I still cant believe I turned this whole thing around with DBing. We are now working on the things we should have done 17 years ago in our relationship. I feel really strong and I know what I need and want out of a relationship becuase of DBing. I am the distancer now and h is the pursuer. I plan to keep it that way. I still feel this bubble is going to break, but I know that I will be stronger next time. Home 7 months after MLC and depression for 2 years. It was actually 3 years in total, but it was at the 2 year mark he wanted to come home. I asked him to wait a year to prove his dedication to me and the kids and to know this is where he really wants to be. Take care, Thanks for posting. Loretta
