It's always so nice to hear from those who are making it. I intend to move over here soon also. I just haven't had the time lately to do too much posting.
I totally agree with Karen regarding the kids. In fact, I decided that my kids didn't need to know about what their father had done. If it had ever gotten to the point of separation or divorce, of course, they would have been informed, but it never did and I see no reason for them to ever find out. Our 17 year old is a senior in high school with his first love. How this situation would have ruined everything for him. Our 15 year old thinks his parents are totally in love and he is very secure in that. No, my boys will never know. We are pretty happy now (only 5 months since bomb), and getting better each day.
I feel that not telling our kids about what's happened is one of the greatest gifts I could have given them.
