Chia, Even though your H is home you still have to follow Dbing rules. The wanting to be home and not any place else takes a while. I dont think you were wrong to tell him how you felt when he didnt acknowledge you at the party. I found when a issue came up that I wasnt going to tolerate this time around I wound get upset briefly, let him know and then carry on having a good time. If the things that upset you dont get addressed you will be right back to before he left with the same issues. I have had to put my foot down a few times since H is home. I make my feelings known then you have to sit back and wait for the change. If he really loves you and wants to be with you he will want you to be happy also. Try not to carry on bringing up past. Just move on from that point and be happy fun loving energetic, the life of the party. That is who he has come home to. I hope this helps. Loretta
