Chia, I think you have to slow down and let H slowly make that turn towards you. You are seeing when you pursue that the H reacts negatively. Surely your comment was small and he blew up for no good reason, but it is a slow transition towards your new and improved M. Just try to continue to do what works and see if you can let him initiate some activities. H is probably not in a great mood either if he is not getting enough sleep. Remember, it's still slowlee slowlee...
