EF is definitely still at it. When I was out of town, he spoke to H. He talked about how it will never work between H and I, etc. I'm just going to take the high road and let EF speak his mind then go on with my life. At this point, nothing he can say will bother me. If he starts talking ugly about me, my R with H, or H, I'll just get up and leave. It never hurts to listen to someone's point of view as long as you are solid in your own self and beliefs!