Thanks for the advice. My trouble seems to be that forgiving something like this is going to be a lengthy process, something that I won't be able to get over right away.
I think that she is still so angry from her disappointments in the marriage that she is at this point not capable of showing remorse. The more anger she has pointed at me, the less she will have to direct at herself in terms of guilt.
At this point I don't have the courage to forget her and move on. I think that this relationship can be overhauled and made stronger, but only if she's willing. She did leave only recently and I want to give it time.
Sounds like you are enjoying yourself meeting other women. Do you date them, or is it just a social situation? I would feel awkward dating someone when my marriage is in limbo. Has your wife pursued you since you left?
