Quote: I'm wondering, however, to what end does all of your advice go to?
- This needs to be about you and GAL. - You can only control you and your actions/reactions. - While WAW is playing fantasy land, you are there for the children and demonstrate to them what your moral value is. - You show backbone by stating you will be in the house and kids and no OM in house.
In the end, it's able saving yourself and being the best person you can be. You have to do what's right for you and the kids. WAWs fantasy land may crumble soon, or may never crumble. Take care of your self and your children.
Some friendly divorce advise: Start with 80/20 for for kids (Ask for more then you want, plan your negoiations(sp?)). Then when her lawyer proposes 50/50, you can easily 'give' 65/35. Otherwise, you'll argue about 50/50 - 65/35 all day with no comprimise.
