Thank you Ohio. It is nice to get a perspective of someone divorcing with custody issues.
I'm wondering, however, to what end does all of your advice go to?
I'm feeling really like I am over W and want to move on with my life. I will not move out of my house, but I don't want her here either. I don't really think I want to reconcile anymore. We are cordial with one another, but I just don't think I can love her any more. THere has been too much disrespect, too much damage.
Does this advice have the aim of saving my marriage or reconciling some day? While I haven't 100% locked the door on this, I really don't think I want to fight for this anymore. I've said it 100 times before, the only thing that might leave the door slightly ajar on this is our kids. I don't want to see them shuttled back and forth and I don't want to spend a day without them...
