Well, shoot, get your step-mom in on this! I am able to say to some women friends, quit trying to figure it out and go get a T panel. Your W expressed a desire to reconnect w the step-mom who is familiar w menopause. She can bring up the thyroid as a cause of a lot of needless pain and aggravation. If the T panel comes back normal then she has established her base line.

Your step-mom could do this, Andy!