DavidM, I'm really glad ou were able to break some kind of ground with W. IMO I think that it is something that she really wants to talk about. I would not rush it or anything wait until she comes to you. You don't want to seem needy or pushy. Aslo IMO I do think this was good DBing, but then again I haven't been doing this very long. I just wish I could get my STBX to carry a conv with me with out either one of us getting pissy or him saying something to hurt my feelings.
