Quote: As far as my W attitude toward me. She has not changed much. She is friendly but does not seem to care about me one way or another. She has always been real standoffish but I guess I was hoping that she would start to show some improvement.
Glad dinner went well!
Be carefull with this kind of thinking. I suspect you want to move right past a lot of the other issues directly to one of her core issues, her "standoffishness". I think that is the wagon before the horse. I think she may need MUCH more time in a relationship with you where she feels safe and validated before she looses some of that, and even then, if this is something that is at the core of her, she may never change THAT much. I am starting to reazlie these things about my W and my sitch too.
