Ok, one more perspective to share with you, and this may only be my W and my sitch but if it applies, or can help...
Quote: It is just unbelievable to me that she does this. The only people I talk too about my sitch is you folks on this BB.
Yea, me too except for my boss and that's only because I took some time off from work/was a basket case for a long time so I felt it best to tell him so he didn't think something else...and my W knows that it's only him, my C and this board, but you know what, to her, this board is the same as telling "lots of people". To her there is no difference between me talking to you all and her talking to her sister or friend. We have had that argument MANY times and she almost always starts it by responding to my question of why she is talking to so-and-so about us with "Well, you have YOUR people you talk to and I have mine."
So it's possible that your W doesn't care if we are a bunch of anonymus people here, if she's anything like my W, people is people, online, on the phone, in real life, and it may make her feel entitled to talk to whoever she wants.
In the end, there isn't much to be done about it. Take the high road and that's about the best you can do.
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P.S. Glad you cut the OW (lol) off. Kidding, I swear.
