Here is my sitch. All advice welcome#2

[Hanging__On]

I see your point GH. Just for the record I did tell this gal that I was no longer going to chat it up with her because of my situation. My MIL called her slut the other day just because she is associated to me. It is not fair to her.

I just want to focus on getting my life back in order and somehow building a new marraige with my W.

I know for fact the W is bad mouthing me to friends and family because they make sure and tell me when it happens. It is just unbelievable to me that she does this. The only people I talk too about my sitch is you folks on this BB. It is just sad to see this happening. You think you know someone when you have been with them for 15 years, but what I really know is that she is not the person I thought she was.