Well today is my D birthday. She is now 6. My W informed me last night that she would be at my house this morning to pick up the girls for the day. She also asked if I wanted to go to dinner tonight which hit me by suprise. The last couple of weeks she has not given me the time of day.

This morning when she arrived, she was in a great mood and we discussed the birthday party we have planned for this weekend. I still feel like we are at stand still and I am emotionally dead. I don't know if I am coming or going. I would like for us to just spend some time together and visit or something.

I also have another delima. The W has been telling everyone that I am seeing somebody wich is not true. There is a gal that I have been talking to on the phone for a couple of weeks but it is nothing other than chatting. I can't figure out why she feels the need to say crap to people that is not true. This has been going on since day one and it is driving me crazy. What do you think? Should I ask her about it or should I ignore it?

Married 11 years, together 15 Two Daughters 6 and 2 D-day Jan.14 2006 Thread 1