You are at the point we all get to where we say the cliche "if I only knew then what I know now" and the not as common "I KNOW now and if only I can get her to understand that she would..." I feel your pain but just know that no matter what you know now, or feel today, you can't rush the process. She has to not only lead herself to the water but decide to drink from it before she can learn how good it tastes now that you've purified the hell out of it.
