Here is my sitch. All advice welcome#2

[Hanging__On]

No disrespect, but I think I am way past plan A. Everyone in my town knows about the affair. I just beleive that things are not going to change. She seems to be so stubborn that I could walk on water and she does not care. It is ok though because all I can do is focus on myself.
I never really realized how much work it takes to keep a home picked up and somewhat clean. It seems as though the work is never done. The problem is that I am letting the chores outside go. Life is tough being single for the first time ever. I have never had to just rely so heavily on myself. I am sad that the dreams my W and I had so long ago are starting to fade away to only dreams of myself and my children. I guess life was going to good and something had to give. I just didn't think it would be our marraige.
The toughest thing to deal with right now is our children. D5 says everday that she wants mom and I to live in the same house again. It is abosolutely horrible see your children have to go through something as painfull as this. What a shame the whole situation is.