Plan A & B don't necessarily mesh with DB's princepals. This site is primarily used for each of us to encourage the other to apply the DB princepals correctly in hopes that if done right, THIS plan can work.
The "carrot" of plan A is essentially DB, but the stick is where things depart. Placing all that focus on the A and "exposing" the affair, etc, is decidedly anti-DB. There are MANY ways to go about this, and if following those plans, and the ideas of that author is what "feels" right to you, then there are a ton of people who can help in that respect, and an entire website designed to give you the info you need, just like this one is here to help with DBing.
Every sitch is different, and there are a LOT of ways to go about trying to deal with them. I encourage everyone to read as much as you can, from many different sources and then just go with the opinions you feel best suit your sitch and that most of all, that you can DO.
