HO, shippd,

You can count me in on that too. I know my sitch looks and sounds better than yours, but that same lack of W's ability to communicate her "issues" and feelings to me may eventually prove to be our downfall too...oh, and I don't discount my own ability to LISTEN to her as a problem too.

I know it hurts, to think you KNOW how to save your marriage, only to have her just keep walking. I guess that's why in the end, DB is as much about saving US as it is saving a marriage. It allows us to realize that we are not our marriages, rather our marriage is one part, one chapter in our lives that we can help along to a happy ending, but ultimatly, we are not the authors of.

HO, I have to think, at some point, even if it's "too late" our W's WILL eventually find a voice for their feelings. I've seen it happen many times. I hope in your case, it happens sooner rather than later.

GH


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