man i know exactly how your feeling, my wife is saying the same things to me right now. my wife also cannnot communicate her issues to me either, and yes it is frustrating to say the least. i too am having a hard time staying the course and wanting to save my marriage. all i can tell you is keep up the faith that maybe someday she will come around and start communicating her feelings to you in a possitive way. best of luck to you, we are going thru the same thing with it sounds like the same type of wife.
