Hi HO, from a women's point of view when we refuse to ML with our H is because we are angry with our H. As you should have known by now, women needs alot of attention and love, they need their H to listen.
Me...I had 2x affair...its no excuse for my actions even though my H neglects me but everyone react differently to tell their spouse I AM ANGRY W U!
For women the easiest way to show anger is to refuse SEX. You know making love is not only on bed, it starts from the morning till the evening or night. Begin the morning by telling your wife ILU/ how beautiful she is/how u appreciate the little stuff she did everyday for u...in the afternoon maybe during your lunch time call her to tell her u miss her/ u wanna date her for lunch...and I have a question to ask you...what is the first thing you do when u reach home? Do you look for your wife or your children first or maybe the TV remote? Once in a while buy her some flowers or little gifts (eg. her favourite artist CD) nothing expensive but meaningful to u n her.
We women are suckers for love and attention, we are not machines that can be ignite instantly...be patient HO.
Now i need your advise...my H wants out after my 2nd mistake. AM trying very hard to communicate now with him over messages...and yes women needs alot of communication which me n H don't so hope yours is good.
