Guy, all I can say is get a comfy chair and read my threads cuz I am right there with you. OT, I wish you would chime in here (sorry HO, lol) because you slapped me pretty hard when I said something like this.
HO, you have to understand, and OT usually does a better job of explaining this so I'll keep mine short in hopes she'll chime in, that your perception of your sex life and hers may be VERY different. I think you see that now but are still trying figure out just HOW different.
I will post more, but am calling for reinforcments on this one...
