Perhaps your book is better, but I'm reading the other one because W bought it (for herself). I guess I just want to be informed about what she's reading, and trying to get a handle on her feelings.
I think W is looking for the upside of meno. I don't know if either of us are ready to "wend our way through seemingly endless pages about women losing their spouses, men losing their jobs (to say nothing of their hair), and both men and women contracting enough diseases to make even the hardiest souls hurry in for a checkup." until we get to the positive stuff.
I guess we - and especially W are looking for PMA.
I guess I don't want to start obsessing over menopause either. W got very tired of being blamed for everything (her perception), and I sure don't want it to appear that it's all her fault (again!!).
