Thanks for all of the responses. Have been really busy at work and could not reply.
To date, I have not told the OW husband about the affair, although after WAH spewed this weekend, I told him that I am thinking about it.
This whole MLC thing has me in such a tizzy. When I GAL and do things with the kids, he calls d11 and quizzes her on our activities. I cut flowers from the garden and put them in a vase and he asks me suspiciously who sent the flowers. WHY SHOULD HE CARE!! I get a new hairdo and he asks if I am seeing someone.
He is living free and easy at his sister's house. Works as a bartender (anywhere between 2-4 nights per week). He has all day to be with our kids at home while I am at work, yet when he has d11 call me to ask if she can sleep at his sister's with him and I say no because she has a cold and doesn't need to sleep in the damp basement with him, he starts the venum flowing. Never mind the fact that he was with OW all day and came by for daughter at 5 pm. He then says I am denying him access to the children. DO THEY NO WHAT THEY ARE SAYING? ARE THEIR MINDS THAT SCRAMBLED?
So now I don't know what to do. He says when he has $1500 her will be able to file for D. I don't know if he really is going to file. All I know is that everyone is suffering and he acts as if it is no big deal.
SO SORRY FOR THE RAMBLING......MY other question is why does he make remarks about what we do and who we are doing it with. Why does he turn around after and say he hopes I find somebody (is it to hear me say...there is no one but you?)? How do you respond!
