Our sits sound the same, but at different stages. For me, I’d love to pass on your suggestion. In fact, I’ve considered it. W is in peri-menopause. Her Dr. subscribed HRT, and it helps somewhat. Obviously, not in the libido area. But, I can’t ask her to go back and ask. This morning, she complained about a backache that she’s had for at least a week now. I suggested she se her Dr. Her response was “Why? She’d only prescribe pills.” Imagine her reaction if I asked her to see the Dr. about libido.
For you, I’d just caution against making assumptions. You say he doesn’t care. I’m sure he’s said a lot of stuff to indicate to you that he doesn’t either. Y’know something? My W thought I didn’t care either. She’s told me about a lot of things I said, and when I heard it from her, it sounded like I never cared. But I always did care. Oh how I regret some of the things I said!
One of the things I told her was that I didn’t want to “work” on OR. Sounds pretty clear, doesn’t it? But, my point was that OR was a joy to me. Not work.
As stupid as my statement was, it stuck, and I’m stuck with it’s consequences.
